Osho said it so perfectly: "The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it's not. Only those who are
capable of being alone are capable of loving, of sharing, of going into
the deepest core of another person - without possessing the other,
without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a
thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.
"They allow
the other absolute freedom, because they know that if the other leaves,
they will be as happy as they are now. Their happiness cannot be taken
by the other, because it is not given by the other."
Photo: Swallowtail Moth in Sunflower, by Aile Shebar
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