Sometimes Listening Is Not Listening

Be perfectly content
with not knowing.
Don't take sides.
If someone preaches
their politics or religion,
just smile and pretend
you are listening.
Remember why you are here.
You are here to be here,
even when they are not here.
Stay in this moment
while they tell their story
about the past and future,
which do not exist.
Breathe in pain.
Breathe out compassion.
Be present,
but keep it a secret.
If you do this to show
your enlightenment,
you are more ignorant than they are.
When they go on and on
without any end in sight,
offer them some tea,
or bourbon.